According to HUD, Housing and Urban Development, Non-Borrowing Spouses may continue to live in the mortgaged property after the death of the last remaining HECM borrower provided they meet all the established requirements and the HECM is not in default for any other reason (such as failure to pay required property taxes or hazard insurance payments).
An eligible Non-Borrowing Spouses may continue to live in the mortgaged property after the death of the last surviving HECM borrower, if the following conditions are met and continue to be met:
1. The Non-Borrowing Spouse is named in the loan documents as a Non-Borrowing Spouse and lives in the property.
2. The HECM cannot be in default (eligible to be called due and payable) for any reason other than the last borrower’s death (i.e., failure to pay required property taxes or hazard insurance payments, failure to maintain property); and
3. The borrower and his or her spouse were either:
a. Legally married at the time the HECM closed and remained married until the HECM borrower’s death.
b. Engaged in a committed relationship akin to marriage but were legally prohibited from
marrying before the closing of the HECM because of the gender of the borrower and Non-Borrowing Spouse, if the spouses legally married before the death of the borrower and remained married until the death of the borrowing spouse; and
4. The Non-Borrowing Spouse lived in the property at loan closing and continues to live in the property as his or her principal residence; and 5. The Non-Borrowing Spouse has (or obtains within 90 days after the death of the last surviving borrower) “good, marketable title” to the property or some other legal right to remain in the property (e.g., executed
lease, court order, etc.) for the rest of the Non-Borrowing Spouse’s life.
NOTE: In Texas, borrowers with a non-borrowing souse will not be able to obtain a reverse mortgage.
Resource: https://www.hud.gov